Facebook is the devil and I have deleted my personal profile a while back. Yet, my family in Ecuador convinced me to make one for personal communication purposes with them. Alright ,though I don’t EVER get on it, I have one. just for them. whatever.
So after weeks of not paying any mind to it, I check today and what I saw just makes me happy I don’t have a personal profile anymore.
I know this girl, named ..lets call her bubbles. (shes cute)
I have watched this girl grow up since the day she came out of her mother’s hoohah and yelled hello world. I care very much about this girl and she is now 11 years old…
She is 11 years old and “in a relationship” it states in her profile with some kid who calls himself ” Lil’boy” something. Little kid stuff with fb games right? So I see who this Kid is and I’m looking at his profile and BAM i see that he has a picture of a shitload of magnum condoms. and some tag name of sex kit. I see his picture and that boy looks like he is 9 years old but probably her age.
I can not stress enough how much i wish i can be a fairy and go to each and every little girl who is wondering about sex and believes that they are old enough and just yell STOP THE INSANITY.
Sex…Lets talk about sex.
Sex is amazing. It’s beautiful and the BEST thing ever ONLY and ONLY if the two persons in that motion are in Love. Only those that have experienced hardships, RESPONSIBILITIES, and are serious can have love and have that wow factor in sex. Having Sex just because you wanna makes the experience so not worth it. PLUS, both must be on the same page with each other. There’s no better sex than being careful and having sex when you both are in serious love with each other. YEAH, sex with strangers is exciting but that ends in like what .minutes?! why have a dab of WOWZAH when you can have a whole lifetime supply. Yes, I do mean fireworks.
Little kids talking about sex is just like listening to a cute baby say SEX. Sex should be a big deal especially to young girls. I wish I can just PLEAD them to WAIT when they themselves and their bodies are ready for that experience. They will be traumatized and scarred if they are not.
Now boys..boys need to stop with their “I’m a man” bullshit and pick up their G.I. joes and hug their mothers. …I am afraid for my brother.
SEX IS FOR THE MATURE! 13 year olds even 16 year olds as much as they want to argue are not mature.
I remember how I was back when I was bubble’s age and even my brother’s age. I had many curiosities, I was no saint.But luckily i had a very direct mother and other things to deal with. I also learned from each and everyone of my STUPID STUPID mistakes. but sex. no. that was never put on the line. I waited and I’m very happy that I did.